During the past few years, my work in the political realm has caused me to become a quasi-public figure. Not what one would consider "famous," but publicly visible enough in a particular realm to know that there are certain things I should not do or say online. If you do a Google search on my name and city (Syracuse), you will find enough information to realize that any bad behavior on my part would embarrass not just myself, but my company (LogicalSolutions.net), my Congressman (once upon a time I was his director of New Media), and even my President (I was the Central New York Coordinator for the Obama campaign and an elected delegate).
I mention this, not because others of you might have the same particular history (you probably don't), but because all of you nonetheless share the same situation, even if you are still young and in school, and even if you have never given a media interview.
With the recent explosion of social media, each of us needs to give some thought to the content of our online reputation, not just for the sake of those whom we represent now, but with an eye toward the people and groups we may aspire to represent some day.
I like to tell people that in order to gauge where your personal line should be on those items, you should think not of the immediate audience to whom you are speaking, but of the person whose respect you would most like to earn. Then, think of how your online messages, photos and comments would appear to him or her. In today’s world, he or she surely will have access to more of it than you might like to think.
Language
Are you using language online that you might be embarrassed about in front of that person or organization?
Alcohol or Drugs
Do you allow people to photograph you in situations in which you are, or appear to be impaired? Many young people make this mistake, thinking that their friends are the only audience they need to care about. Not true! It is very hard to roll back years of circumstantial evidence that you might have a drug or alcohol problem. Employers and others are finding more ways every day to build a fuller picture of who you are. Do you really want those beer-pong photos from college to be part of that picture?
Anger
Do you express opinions online when angry that you might later wish you could take back? Sleep on it first! Ask yourself not, "is this justified with regard to the target of my unhappiness," but rather, "is this message, something I want associated with my name for a long time in the future?" Your online messages often say more about you than they do about the object of your rant.
Build up the Positive
You may not be able to eliminate all the youthful indiscretions of your online past, (although it certainly does not hurt to politely ask someone to take down a particular photo), but you can begin to build a solid foundation for the future. There is no time like the present to start putting out the kind of messages and information that you will still feel good about years in the future. What are you passionate about, good at, altruistic about? These are the elements of an online reputation that highlights what is best about you. These are the kind of messages that you will never have to explain awkwardly to your children, employers, or anyone else important in your life.
Your reputation is one of your most valuable assets. Protect it as if your future depends on it - it does!